PROMPT: Outdated Technology

Daily writing prompt
Which outdated technology do you miss the most, and why?

We’d be better off if the bleeding edge of weapon technology were the pointy stick — not just because of atrocities averted. Also, we’d all have to be more capable in such a world — there is no imposter syndrome among people who have to kill a deer or fish with a spear they hewed themselves. Also, if you are cheesed off with one or more people (or the world,) it is entirely different (and more calming) decision space if one has to go out spearing them individually than if one can spray them with automatic fire from 50 feet away. You’d still have the option, but you’d have to want it more and to accept the inevitability of consequence more fully. Finally, it is quite hard to run an authoritarian dictatorship if your army has weapons of similar capability to any random person.

I don’t know for sure whether “an armed society is a polite society,” but I suspect it is if the pointy stick is the pinnacle of armaments.

I know this makes it sound like I was around in the pre-Bronze era. I was not.

PROMPT: Who We Are?

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Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences or by who we are?

Is a salad lettuce or is it tomato? [It’s both, yet it’s neither. It’s an amalgam that cannot be spun out into component parts any more than one can pluck a solitary fart out of a football stadium — i.e. the fart, the whole fart, and nothing but the fart.]

It sounds like this is meant to be a restatement of the nature versus nurture question, though I’m not sure I understand the question. I would argue that it presents a false dichotomy. Who is one (if not an experience-having machine?) I can’t answer because I think the question assumes a simplification that doesn’t exist in the real world.

I’ve just been reading David Brooks’ book, How to Know a Person, in which he offers a relevant quote from Aldous Huxley: “Experience is not what happens to you, it’s what you do with what happens to you.” I can’t say whether Huxley was entirely correct, but I believe that how one experiences what happens to one is inseparable from who one is. (Also instructive is Brooks’ definition of a person as a point of view.)

PROMPT: Lifelong Learner

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Are you a lifelong learner?

I aspire to be, but in the immortal words of Monty Python, “I am not dead yet!”

PROMPT: Habit

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What’s one habit that has improved your life the most?

Getting up every morning.

PROMPT: Chapter

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What’s a chapter of your life you’d title “The Hard Years” — and what got you through it?

Chapter 7. Chapter 8.

NOTE: Incidentally, I would not title a chapter of my memoirs “The Hard Years,” so as to avoid the assumption that that was when I worked in porn. People would either skip said chapter… or skip to it.

PROMPT: Villain

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What villain actually had a good point?

Heath Ledger’s Joker [The Dark Knight (2008)] has a monologue that goes: “Nobody panics when things go ‘according to plan’… even if the plan is horrifying. If tomorrow I told the press that, like, a gang-banger will get shot, or a truckload of soldiers will be blown up, nobody panics, because it’s all part of the plan…I’m an agent of chaos. Oh, and you know the thing about chaos? It’s fair.”

It is definitely true that our psychology allows us to accept tens of thousands of deaths from drug interactions or auto accidents, but then we will go to outlandish extents — billions upon billions of dollars — to avoid the possibility of a couple of terrorism fatalities. We would use resources much better if we were not so panicky about uncertainty.

PROMPT: Anywhere

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If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

I could happily live any number of places — e.g. several places in Southeast Asia, the Caucasus (particularly Georgia — though with language concerns,) Taiwan, and South America spring to mind. As long as it’s neither brutally hot / humid most of the time nor Winter more than three months a year (and isn’t pricey,) I can probably learn to love it.

I would point out that if this is a forever and always deal, I’m not in. I don’t want to / plan to live any particular place for the rest of my life.

FIVE WISE LINES [July 2026]

Photograph of a green patch between granite outcrops at Uttari Betta (Hutridurga) in Karnataka, India.

Trust in Allah, but tether your camel.

Sufi Saying

[S]ome day you will be old enough to
start reading fairy tales again.

C.S. Lewis, The Lion, the witch and the wardrobe

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.

Marcel proust

Live as if you were to die tomorrow.
Learn as if you were to live forever.

Mahatma gandhi

It took me four years to paint like Raphael,
but a lifetime to paint like a child.

Pablo Picasso

PROMPT: Chaos

Daily writing prompt
Is a little chaos actually good for us?

A little of every kind of stressor is good for us. A human is a system of antifragile systems. Our bones get denser if we load them. Our muscles get stronger when we cause microtears in them. And our minds can cope with a wider variety of experiences when exposed to a wider variety of experiences.

PROMPT: Lesson

Daily writing prompt
What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective?

Just because a message has merit does not mean there is benefit in its delivery. For example, telling a person who is on fire and mad with itching not to scratch or telling a person to not be a jackass when their core nature is jackass. Saying such things will not nudge the state of the world and can only release the puff of hot air that creates chaos — like Edward Lorenz’s proverbial butterfly in Brazil that causes a tornado in Texas.