PROMPT: Worst Travel Experience

What’s the worst travel experience you’ve ever had?

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My “worst travel experience” is like my “worst sexual experience;” it still beats the hell out of sitting at home alone on the couch. (Also, worst travel experiences make the best travel stories — given enough distance in the rearview to see the humor.)

PROMPT: Travel Advice

What’s one piece of travel advice you always follow?

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入乡随俗 — i.e. “enter the village, follow the customs.”

BOOK: “Facets of Taoism” ed. by H. Welch & A. Seidel

Facets of Taoism - Essays in Chinese ReligionFacets of Taoism – Essays in Chinese Religion by Holmes and Anna Seidel (Eds.) Welch
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

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This is a collection of nine scholarly essays written for a conference. As such, it won’t be of interest to most readers because it gets deep in the weeds. For readers unfamiliar with this type of book, the problems for a general reader are numerous. First, the book was assembled with a readership of experts in mind, and — therefore — assumes a fairly in-depth understanding of all aspects of Taoism. Second, the contributors are “inch wide & mile deep” specialists and often focus on topics that will only be of interest to a niche readership (topics like, “how the Taoist canon is organized”) and there is no attempt at systematic coverage to achieve a complete overview of the subject — i.e. it’s siloed. Finally, at times one feels as though one is reading as much footnote as text — i.e. it’s not organized for smooth intake.

That said, as scholarly books go, the readability is reasonably high. Also, it does have the advantages of a scholarly book (e.g. every source is clearly cited.)

If you have some depth of understanding of Taoism and are seeking niche insights, you may find this book is for you. If you don’t, it will probably give you headaches.

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PROMPT: Stress

How do you manage stress?

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Through the realization that one packs one’s own load.

Everything is passing weather, how one dials up (or down) the significance of the present situation is up to one (even if the situation, itself, is completely out of one’s hands.) As the Stoics said, either you can or can’t do something about a given event — either way, it’s not worth one’s worry. If you can’t do anything about it, worry is futile. If you can, do the virtuous thing and you can feel content even if it doesn’t seem to work out for you.

FIVE WISE LINES [October 2026]

You can never plan the future by the past.

Edmund burke

In the garden of gentle sanity,
may you be bombarded by
coconuts of wakefulness

Chögyam Trungpa; Timely Rain

…the most fruitful developments
frequently take place at those points
where two different lines of thought meet.

Werner heisenberg

My miracle is that when I feel hungry I eat, and when I feel thirsty I drink.

Bankei (Upon being challenged to produce a miracle during his lecture at Ryumon-ji Temple)

We cannot catch the fleeting minute
and put it alongside a later minute.

Arthur Milne

PROMPT: Good Person

What does it mean to be a good person?

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I don’t know that it has a meaning. I tend to consider dualities in Taoist terms. Every Yang has a seed of Yin; the Yang flows into Yin and back again.

PROMPT: Mantra or Philosophy

What’s a personal mantra or philosophy you live by?

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First, I don’t have a mantra. While I believe Transcendental Meditation to be a fine approach, other meditative techniques have resonated with me more on a personal level. Unless by “mantra” one is looking for a soundbite that encapsulates the entirety of one’s philosophical thinking — which I also do not have. (At least not a stable one.) Philosophically, I am a Traveler (or, identically – I would argue, a Student.) Epistemologically, this requires a humility about what can and can’t know (though, admittedly, not necessarily humility — generally speaking,) a willingness to empty one’s cup to allow for consideration of new information, and an openness to adopting foreign and unfamiliar ideas where they prove useful.

FIVE WISE LINES [September 2026]

Luck, diligence, spontaneity, and inspiration
are all needed to write a poem.

Mary oliver; A Poetry Handbook

…above all let us never accept as cause for what we do not comprehend something we comprehend even less.

Marquis de sade; Juliette

…wise people don’t tell us what to do;
they start by witnessing our story.

david brooks; How to know a person

The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong,
but to those who can see it coming and jump aside. Like a frog evading a shillelagh in a midnight marsh.

Hunter s. thompson; The Rum Diary

We do not see things as they are,
we see them as we are.

Anaïs Nin

PROMPT: Karma

Do you believe in karma?

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As a general principle about how acting selflessly and as a force for good tends to help one find one’s way, YES. As a clockwork cause-and-effect accounting of one’s life activities, NO. In fact, in the latter sense, I believe the idea has quite a dark side that is frequently overlooked.

BOOK: “Health, Healing, and Beyond” by TKV Desikachar (Trans. by R.H. Cravens)

Health, Healing, And Beyond: Yoga and the Living Tradition of KrishnamacharyaHealth, Healing, And Beyond: Yoga and the Living Tradition of Krishnamacharya by R.H. Cravens
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

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I was eager to read this book because I found Desikachar’s “The Heart of Yoga” to be one of the most important books for yoga practitioners. The book under review is in large part (but not entirely) a biography of T.T. Krishnamacharya — T.K.V. Desikachar’s father and arguably the most important figure in the development of modern yoga. Krishnamacharya was sponsored by the King of Mysore to build a school at the palace, and luminaries such as B.K.S. Iyengar (prop yoga,) Pattabhi Jois (Ashtanga Vinyasa,) Indira Devi (the Russian-born Johnny Appleseed of Yoga,) and others came to be his students.

The book not entirely a biography. It might more accurately be described as an exploration of Krishnamacharya’s philosophy that use stories from his life to elucidate his lived philosophy. Readers will find that the building and maintaining of health is a major element of Krishnamacharya’s philosophy, but perhaps not so much that they find the title apt. The book also spends a fair amount of time on other topics such as yogic ethics and an approach to teaching.

I continue to respect Desikachar’s candor and lack of dogmatism. He discusses his father as a teacher and parent, warts and all. The lack of dogmatism seems to reflect the apple not falling far from the tree. Throughout, Desikachar emphasizes that his father, whatever his faults may have been, was tolerant and saw yoga as a no-strings-attached gift to the world. Krishnamacharya did not require his students, not even his son, to adopt any particular religious belief – despite being a believer himself.

I’d highly recommend this book for all yoga practitioners.


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