BOOK: “Humor, Seriously” by Jennifer Aaker & Naomi Bagdonas

Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life (And how anyone can harness it. Even you.)Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life by Jennifer Lynn Aaker
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

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This book aims to bring humor into the workplace — kicking and screaming, if need be. (Or back to the workplace, depending upon to whom one talks.) The authors jointly teach a grad seminar at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business that addresses questions such as: Why is the corporate world so utterly devoid of a sense of humor? What are the benefits of bringing humor into a corporation? And, how can humor be introduced into a corporate setting without undermining other objectives — like taking over with suitable hostility and profitability and decent coffee in the breakroom (or, whatever, corporations are stoked about?)

This book addresses those questions along with more rudimentary questions such as what makes for funny and how can one be funnier than the average internal audit accountant. It also deals with more niche topics, such as the pitfalls of joking around — if you’re the boss — and how to make levity a component of corporate culture.

Like most books about humor that are designed for some other task than tickling the funny bone, one shouldn’t expect a laugh-riot. That said, neither is this a dry text on corporate communications. As I read, I sometimes felt the book tried too hard to throw in a joke and that a number of them didn’t land, but it also occurred to me that one of the book’s intended lessons is that one doesn’t have to be at a Chris Rock or Jim Gaffigan level of funny to engage in (and benefit from) a bit of corporate levity. (Ergo, some of the Dad Joke caliber groaners may have been on purpose and in that spirit.)

I enjoyed this book and felt it was a beneficial read. I’d recommend it for anyone interested in humor, particularly in the workplace.

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PROMPT: Aliens

If aliens arrived tomorrow, what’s the first thing you’d ask them?

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Do you speak English? 你会说普通话吗?¿Hablas español?

Alternatively, do you have a spare Babel Fish?

Anything else seems pretentious. I certainly don’t speak Alpha Centaurian.

PROMPT: Lesson

Daily writing prompt
What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective?

Just because a message has merit does not mean there is benefit in its delivery. For example, telling a person who is on fire and mad with itching not to scratch or telling a person to not be a jackass when their core nature is jackass. Saying such things will not nudge the state of the world and can only release the puff of hot air that creates chaos — like Edward Lorenz’s proverbial butterfly in Brazil that causes a tornado in Texas.

PROMPT: Topics

Daily writing prompt
What topics do you like to discuss?

Anything but myself. Unfortunately, that seems to be the main mode of social discourse in the world. People mostly want to hear enough about me that they feel justified in telling me more about them. I’m an ideas guy: philosophy, science, literature, technology, economy, international affairs, etc. (Also, travel, but that only works with travelers — a tiny segment of the population.)

PROMPT: Communicate Online

Daily writing prompt
In what ways do you communicate online?

Like everyone, with a great deal less civility.

Also, with the recognition that no one is trapped by societal convention, so one must be concise, or no one will take it in.

Also, I end sentences with prepositions more.

PROMPT: Performed

Daily writing prompt
Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech?

Performed? Not yet. (Unless you count “Crowd Member Milling About [with No Lines] – #7” in an Elementary School Christmas Pageant.) Given a speech? Yes. Unless it is completely impromptu, it is nowhere near the top of my list of horrifying life events.

FIVE WISE LINES [November 2025]

Taken at Fo Guang Shan, near Kaohsiung in Southern Taiwan.

A thing is mighty big when time
and distance cannot shrink it.

Zora Neale hurston; Tell my horse

…if you want to be elected, it is better
to be Mean than to be Funny.

hunter s. thompson; Better than sex

And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile,
go with him twain.

jesus; Matthew 5:38-40

The only gamblers who will talk openly
are the ones who don’t make money.
The successful ones keep their mouths shut.

Kit chellel; lucky devils

To live a creative life,
we must lose our fear of being wrong.

joseph chilton pearce

PROMPT: Friend

What quality do you value most in a friend?

The ability to converse intelligently on a wide range of subjects.

PROMPT: Emojis

Daily writing prompt
What are your favorite emojis?

As might be expected of a device that only exists to facilitate lazy, I don’t have impassioned feelings about any emoji, but I do use the “thumbs up” more than all others combined, so I guess it would be fair to say that’s it. “Thumbs up” is very versatile, and if one is being so lazy as to use an emoji for communication, one might as well go all out an add ambiguity to the mix. “Thumbs up” just says, I have some kind of feeling between indifferent and ecstatic about what you’ve just said.

“Yes, I have a thousand tongues” by Stephen Crane [w/ Audio]

Yes, I have a thousand tongues,
And nine and ninety-nine lie.
Though I strive to use the one,
It will make no melody at my will,
But is dead in my mouth.