It seems there's no need for a sign that says: "No Outsiders, Inside!" Wherever you may draw the line, it can't sensibly be denied that the outsider who steps across - having crossed - is an insider. No need to consult the rules or boss Re: the "IN" side of the divider.
Tiger Riding for Beginners 
haha – how very timely I made the mistake in 1987 in joining the RC gang after a perfectly valid secular peak experience; I had come to understand that reality was sacrament-shaped and I just gritted my teeth and held on to one of the fathers of liberation theology spiritually. That did not save me from getting abused and manipulated spiritually later by a petty mind I loved like a sister. That’s 14 years after I left RC, mind. Today, after shouting loud in that community and not for the first time, I feel the matter is now moving into past tense. Here comes your post. … 😊😂
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