What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?
Being healthy of mind, body, and in one’s closest interpersonal relationship(s.)
Yes. It’s absolutely attainable.
I subscribe to the thinking of Epicurus — i.e. “Nothing is enough for the man to whom enough is too little.” And Socrates — i.e. “The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.”

inner freedom, solitude, meaningful work – yes I concur, as long as it’s not preached to those who don’t have enough.
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